Right and Reasonable

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TALK, TALK

Talking that consists mainly of instructions and directives has very little to do with communication and intimacy. If you don't talk to your children now, they won't talk to you when they become teenagers.

WITHOUT A PLAN

Without a plan or strategy of taking care of yourself, without knowing what you want and ideas for its implementation, you lose the energy, the force, and the gravitational power that makes your desires come true.
By default, you become an element in someone else's strategy. Sucked up by their gravity and lost to yourself. To escape now requires more effort, more determination, more motivation than before. It can be done. But, get a plan!

INTELECTUAL

To become an intellectual start by rubbing two thoughts together. It's like sex, once you feel it's pleasurable sensation you can't get enough of it.

WE ARE THE ENVIRONMENT

We are the environment. The first act of taking care of the environment is to take care of ourselves. This is the foundation of our morality. Everything requires care. If we hurt any part of the environment we hurt ourselves. This is the glue that holds us together; this is the glue that matures into love.

My Life / Your Life

How do you explain your life without complaining?

At what point does my life become my fault?

At what point do I move on?

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Brains

Fear was originally designed to protect us. However, evolution gave us brains with more fire power and sophistication than the other animals. We have been able to use it for exquisite pleasures, comforts, solutions, and indulgences; but, unfortunately to also develop overwhelming anxiety about death. Our imagination allows us to live in the future where death sits waiting for us.
Our brains solve problems, which leads to other problems,
which the brain again solves, on and on, except for he problem of death
And,once again our brains come to the rescue, with the invention of the "after life". You can't beat the brains.

Sexy

Sexy is getting the imagination to run wild
with anticipated pleasures.
Nothing is sexier than money:
the imagination turns into wild horses.

Relationships

Relationships: theory & practice & benefits:
Theory: being connected;
Practice: giving and accepting;
Benefits : intimacy.

Cultivate

Cultivate your talents and your pleasures: like invested monies, a comfort as you age.

Parenting

It's never too early and never too late to learn good parenting.

If you were lucky, you had good parenting, which included instructions on how to parent yourself. If you weren't so lucky, then, as soon as possible, through observation and research, discover what good parenting is and start its practice.

Sometimes bad examples can be very instructive. Which of your friends, with all the typical issues they have,would you want for a parent? Is it comforting or harrowing to know they will be parents to many "someones"?

Trance

By Default

If we do not promote education by our behavior and examples, then by default, we are promoting ignorance

Opportunity

Nobody likes getting old,
But few pass up the opportunity

Artist

I am the artist
of my life.




Giving meaning to emotions,
Sights and smells
And memories.

Feeling vibes
of all the sadness.
There's much work to balance me.

Make decisions
at the crossroads.
Forks are opportunities.

Yes, I am the artist
of my life.
I have a hand
in what will be, will be.

Love

If you say you love me,
is that love?
Can love be created just like that?
Suppose I don't want it;
does it disappear?
Does it hang in the air
forever, like a spell, or,
until the molecules of love
thin out, disperse,
and recycle,
like the atoms in our bodies?

Joy

Problems and Solutions

LOVE

LOVE

You get it by giving.

How is that possible?
Is this a paradox?
A trick question?
Suppose I give,
and nothing comes back?
Am I a fool?

The giving is the getting.
Shut up and be satisfied!

Let go

Life is always
passing you by:
you can not run
as fast
as the water flows.
Let go;
stay away from the river.